Sunday, January 16, 2011

Do it beacause it is the right thing to do...

A young, 18-year-old student was struggling to pay his fees while he was studying at Stanford University in 1892. He was an orphan, and not know­ing where to turn for money, he came up with a bright idea. A friend and he decided to host a musical concert on campus to raise money for their education.

They reached out to the great pianist Ignacy J. Paderewski - who was quite a superstar those days. His manager demanded a guaranteed fee of $2000 for the piano recital. A deal was struck. And the boys began to work to make the concert a success.
The big day arrived. Paderewski performed at Stanford. But unfortunately, they had not managed to sell enough tickets. The total col­lection was only $1600.

Disappointed, they went up to Paderewski and explained their plight. They gave him the entire $1600, plus a cheque for the balance $400. They promised to honour the cheque soonest possible.

"No way!" said Paderewski. "This is just not acceptable!" He tore up the cheque, returned the $1600 and told the two boys "Here's the $1600. Please deduct whatever expenses you have incurred. Keep the money you need for your fees. And just give me whatever is left!" The boys were surprised, and quite overjoyed. They thanked him profusely.

It was a small act of kindness. But it clearly marked out Paderewski as a great human being. Someone special. He would have been within his rights to demand his "guaranteed money".

The truly great people think, "If I don't help them, what will happen to them?". Most only think of themselves, the loss they might incur, the trouble they might have to go through and the sacrifice they need to make.

The great men don't think of themselves. They think of the difference it could make to other people. And that's what drives their actions. They help not because someone else is watching, or because it will look good when the world comes to know about it. They don't do it expecting something in return.

They do it because they feel it's the right thing to do.

It may not surprise you to know that Paderewski went on to become the Prime Minister of Poland. He was a great leader, but unfortunately when the World War began, Poland was ravaged. There were over 1.5 mil­lion people starving in his country, and no money to feed them. Paderewski did not know where to turn for help.

He reached out to the US Food and Relief Administration for help. The head there was a man called Herbert Hoover - who later went on to become the US President. Hoover agreed to help and quickly shipped tons of food grains to feed the starving Polish people. A calamity was averted.

Paderewski was relieved! He decided to go across to meet Hoover and person­ally thank him.

When Paderewski began to thank Hoover for his noble gesture, Hoover quickly interjected and said, "You shouldn't be thanking me Mr. Prime Minister. You may not remember this, but several years ago, you helped two young students go through college in the US. I was one of them."

It is rightly said that you can achieve everything you want in life if only you help other people achieve what they want in their lives.
Forwarded by Mr.R. Ramakrishnan.

Saturday, January 8, 2011

leak or no leak ...it's a patience test...

It's high time for a serious CAT aspirant who took CAT on Nov 2010. While results being declared on 12th Jan, 2011; reports of a leak of results has mput all guys (and puys) on fire. Some of the students have seen their score-cards while many (like me) are just keeping their fingers crossed.
It's a very very hot topic of discussion on almost every forum and thread of popular mba websites.

Well, I haven't seen my scorecard yet - fortunate enough. I am just waiting for 12th jan. Hope I get what I deserve.

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Atit

Clap and Laughter....

I am feeling very very low and I don't know where to write. In fact, I don't even know if I will be able to express my self or not.

28th December 2010 - the best day of my life - when I got a Gold Medal. It was for I secured highest marks in Project. I was not at all happy because I got it for my BE, I was happy because it was for the first time in my life I got something that I had ever dreamed of. I had been a consistent topper till std. 10 during my school days, but my school never recognized it - though some of the teachers of it did. I have been good for a long time but all I had done was to clap - I never got a clap of my dream (and that was the reason why I was just standing and smiling at photographers and audience for the longest time on stage when I got medal !!). I felt it was not - not at all - for my bachelors but for the work I did till my bachelors. I finally for the first time got a clap of my dream.

As usual, a story can never have happy ending. The time came when clap was followed by laughter. I do not get a job. Well, let me tell you it all started when I joined and hardly completed 2 months. I get to know that the project for which I was recruited was shelved !!! I was transferred from projects to manufacturing. I had to work with shift chemists(Msc Chemistry) and operators (SSC pass) and some routine stuff (for which there is no need to do engg.!!!). I took leave and talked to my mentor about this and he tried to arrange me in projects unit but who nothing could save me. I went back and asked a very first question - has my profile changed? Got a very quick reply - your profile will be the same (you have to come in shifts in manufacturing only). Interestingly, my answer was spontaneous - then I resign. It was 7th December, 2010.

Let me be honest, luck has changed. My all the offer letters were blocked. It was in about 3 companies (good companies) where salary was also decided and offer letters were to be dispatched in a week but I never got them. It was in more than 5 companies where all my interviews well went but they said will think. The others think - I am either not suitable or I am an impossible stuff. A laughter.

It is the time I learned that ones' achievements can even be their negative points when one is applying for a job. Some feel my project is un-realistic !!! It is the time that taught me a lot of things. A laughter.

Then what keeps me going ?

Faith? if yes, in what?
Confidence? if yes, for what?
hope? if yes, about what?

I am still to find - what is what?

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Atit